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In today's video, I'm gonna show you one simple way - and 2 extra ways - to find out if he really likes you; to find out if he's really egging you on, and to find out if he's really willing to meet up with you. This is something that a lot of guys struggle with, because if a guy doesn't like a girl (and he initially showed interest), he struggles saying no to her; because us guys aren't used to rejecting women.
I developed this because - when I first started learning how to pick up girls (for those who don't know, I'm actually a dating coach for men; I just happen to be pretty damn good at teaching women. I don't know how the f*^k that happened, but fate had it to be like that. Who knows.
Anyway, something that I noticed: Every time I asked a girl out, and she didn't want to go out with me, she was always busy. I would think to myself, who the f*^k is this girl? She better be saving the world if she's always gonna be busy. But every time a girl liked me, she was never busy; or, she was busy but somehow she found time with me. When people like you, there's no such thing as an excuse to meet you; they'll meet up with you. When somebody doesn't like you, there's always an excuse. Excuses are only there to justify your emotional response.
This is what I learned: Whenever I asked a girl,"Are you always busy?" it immediately showed me whether or not she wanted to go out with me (a good percentage of the time); to the point where I would not even waste my time asking for her number if she didn't answer that question. This works a lot if you wanna be very covert and subtle about it.
For example: If you wanna find out if you should ask for his number (whether you should be aggressive about it), just ask him, "By the way, are you always busy?" By the end of the conversation, ask him if he's always busy; then let him respond. If he says,"Yes, I'm always busy," without giving you a "but" at the end, then that means he's busy and he doesn't wanna see you. If he says, "Yes, but..." like "Yes, but I'm actually free here..." or "Yes, but I'm not that busy," it means he is busy, but he wants to see you, if he says, "No, I'm not that busy," that just means that a) he's free, and b) you better get yourself a sugar daddy, because he's got a lot of time on his hands. He better have a YouTube channel if he has a lot of time on his hands.
Nevertheless, that is one of the simplest ways to find out if a guy likes you. As for guys using it on women, women can tell. When I ask that question, I can tell whether or not she wants to see me. It's pretty simple. The thing is that people struggle rejecting other people; it's a little awkward, especially for men. For men, we're not used to rejecting women. It's weird for us. Something I found out is that when I got good with women, it was very awkward having to reject women. You wanna be nice; you don't wanna hurt their feelings and whatnot. That's why I feel women can be very cold and ruthless; because they've been so used to rejecting guys, that they just don't give a f*^k anymore. So they develop that callous of just doing crazy sh!t, and not giving a f*^k about it; looking at you like nothing happened. I'm like, "Yo, WTF?" I've had that experience in the past. I'm a human being - I get rejected, too. So don't let the cameras fool you.
That's a very simple way to find out if he likes you. Another way is to ask him (if you notice he's just bullsh!tting you around, he's not really going out with you) - just tell him, "You can delete my number." Just text that randomly. If he says, "OK," that means he really didn't wanna see you. If he says,"WTF? What?" or looks for an explanation - right when he looks for an explanation - most likely (if he really likes you), he's gonna ask you out.
Or, if you notice he's being a little hesitant to go out with you, you can say, "You know, we don't have to hang out." Just text him. That'll show you if he really wants to go out with you.
Another way is - before going on a date (on the day of) - just tell him, "I'm gonna be 10 minutes late." Why? Because if he really wants to go out with you, he's gonna be like, "That's fine, don't worry about it." If he doesn't wanna go out with you, he's gonna say, "Oh, you know what? I'm gonna be a little late, too. How 'bout we reschedule?" That's an easy way to find out if he's really bullsh!tting you, or if he wants to go out with you. Because you don't wanna go out with someone who doesn't wanna go out with you.